How Could So Many Have Dropped the Ball When it Came to Jerry Sandusky?
The more I have read about former Penn State football coach, Jerry Sandusky, and so many others who were peripherally aware of his horrific misconduct and did nothing to stop it, the angrier I get. And I can’t imagine how the parents of the boys who were victimized and the victims themselves feel.

First, my disgust for Sandusky’s behavior and his cunningness is hard to express. This man chose his victims very carefully; who better than at-risk young boys. And what a sick yet sly man this was who knew that if he took these young boys under his wing and wormed his way into their trust by working with them at his Second Mile program, a charity which he founded for boys like this, he could place himself in a position to take advantage of their trust.
One of the first examples of turning a blind eye? In May of 1998, a mother of one of these boys reported to university police that the coach had showered with her son. Two campus police detectives listened in while this mother approached Sandusky regarding the bear hug he had given her son while both were naked in the showers. They listened in as Sandusky refused to promise not to shower with her son again, and when asked if his “private parts” had touched her son’s body, they heard him say, “I don’t think so. Maybe.”
Six days later, they listened in to another conversation between the two. When the boy’s mother told Sandusky to stay away from her son, Sandusky said, “I understand. I was wrong. I wish I could get forgiveness. I know I won’t get it from you. I wish I were dead.”
Now, listen for the ball dropping…
Sandusky met with the lead police detective and investigator with the child welfare department two weeks later, where he admitted to showering with the boy. He told them he was sorry, and the detective told him “not to shower with any child again and Sandusky said he would not.” According to the report, District Attorney Ray Gricar decided not to press criminal charges, and the case was dropped.
Did you hear it? Bounce…bounce…bounce…

But wait; the report indicates that at least one other person was aware of this investigation: university counsel Wendell Courtney. But Courtney was also the attorney for Sandusky’s Second Mile charity.
Bounce…bounce…bounce…
At the end of 1999, Sandusky left his coaching position at Penn State, but his retirement package granted him an office in the team’s practice facility and unlimited access to the football facilities, which included the locker rooms, where he used his access to prey on the boys he was “helping.”
It was here, on March 1, 2002, that Mike McQueary, a graduate assistant at the time but now a wide receiver coach for Penn State, went to investigate some “rhythmic slapping sounds” coming from the showers. To his shock, McQueary saw Sandusky having anal sex in the locker room shower with a boy who appeared to be about 10 years old. A sad detail here is that the boy apparently saw McQueary, too.
A “distraught” McQueary called his father telling him what he had witnessed, and the next day they went together to tell Coach Paterno what McQueary had seen. (Now, follow the telling of this sexual assault and take note of how many people along the way were informed of the terrible event.)
The next day (not that very day) Paterno called Tim Curley, Penn State’s athletic director and told him that McQueary had seen Sandusky “fondling or doing something of a sexual nature to a young boy.” My first reaction to this grand jury testimony is: was that how McQueary described anal sex to Paterno, or is that the watered-down version Paterno passed along? I don’t know, but clearly this is an extremely white-washed version of what really happened in that shower.
Penn State University President Graham Spanier was also informed of “a report of an incident involving Sandusky and a child in the showers on campus.” And the senior vice president for finance and business, who also oversaw the University Police, Gary Schultz, was also told.
Get ready for a lot of dropped balls…

Schultz never reported the incident to campus police. Bounce…bounce…bounce…

Neither did Coach Paterno. Bounce…bounce…bounce…
And neither did the president of the university. Bounce…bounce…bounce…

Curley met with McQueary a couple of weeks after the alleged assault and told him “that Sandusky had been directed not to use Penn State’s athletic facilities with young people and the ‘information’ had been given to the director of The Second Mile.”
As far as Curley was concerned, it was over. Bounce…bounce…bounce…
And McQueary, as “distraught” as he had been, did not inform the police about what he had witnessed when the university let him down. That young boy who saw McQueary witness his assault was probably hoping for a savior. Bounce… bounce… bounce…
Things continued much the same until the spring of 2008, when the mother of one of the most recently alleged victims contacted her son’s high school to report her suspicions regarding Sandusky.
And here is the first refreshing news in this whole twisted tale: the head high school coach immediately notified the authorities, and an investigation was finally launched by Pennsylvania’s attorney general in early 2009, an investigation which took more than two years to finally result in charges against Sandusky.
Finally, a high school coach did what no one else was willing to do; risk going up against a legendary coach to protect a child. Finally, the ball was not dropped. And perhaps, if police had been notified along the way, this latest young man would never have been a victim of Sandusky’s abuse.
I wonder how those who dropped the ball over the years when it came to Jerry Sandusky, and there may be many more that we aren’t even aware of, can sleep at night. How can they live with the knowledge that their silence opened the door for other young boys to be victimized by a monster? Do they lay awake at night and wish that they could turn back the hands of time and choose differently?
And was the choice so very difficult? A legendary coach and a university’s reputation over protecting children from a monster.
Is there any excuse to let that ball drop?
(Any quotes in this blog are part of the grand jury report.)

